Guys who wrote to me only to let me know that something on my profile doesn't agree with their preferences and aggressively try to make me say that it won't be an issue when (not if) we meet on a date.

"[dating website] is not for relationship, it's for hooking up. It is very dumb of you to say that you're here for a long term relationship. I don't want that. So if we meet up, you'll put out right?"

"Your profile says you want to own a cat some day but I'm allergic, so you'll have to compromise on that" (like I haven't met you yet, why should I already be making compromises when I could just meet someone who does not have allergies?)

"I hope you have a good reason to not want to date smokers because I smoke socially"

and so on.

Why is it so hard to (1) take a profile at face value and (2) ignore profiles that don't match your wants and not-wants? Why be so aggressive about me not fitting the mold of the partner you're seeking?