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giant_toad42 t1_itzq7hg wrote

Reply to comment by AdHistorical7107 in how was this POS allowed to walk? by AdHistorical7107

You ever experienced DV? I saw it as a kid. I've also seen people lie about it.

Why did my mother experience what she did? Because liars get away with lying.

The reason victims of DV are not taken care of is because liars are not taken care of.

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AdHistorical7107 OP t1_itzrk86 wrote

Ah. You mean the perp lies. Fortunately I have not witnessed firsthand. I did have a friend who went through it. Hence why this pisses me off

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HappyLittleRadishes t1_iu03cm4 wrote

Your mother experienced what she did because your father is a piece of shit that deserves to be hauled away by the cops.

Attributing the fault of domestic violence to liars rather that the scum abusing their spouses is fucked up.

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giant_toad42 t1_iu0jfzn wrote

She experienced what she did because abusers don't get punishment because "she might be lying". I agree with you too - that my ex-father is a piece of shit. I hate the guy - and everyone should hate the guy.

I'm blaming the police and liars for making the police hesitant to believe victims. No woman should suffer an abuser. Ever.

Yes. Blaming people who cry wolf (usually in divorce proceedings) for inactivity on the count of law enforcement- that is a very valid call.

DV should always be taken very seriously. It should be acted on harshly. There should be no question in the minds of law enforcement on whether or not it happened.

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Jakmike t1_itzyid7 wrote

You and me are in the same boat there, 15 years worth before mom got sick of it and left with me, and the 2 younger siblings, 4 year old sister, and little brother 8 years younger than me. I was 18-19 when we all left.

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