Oh my god. To go through all that - and for her to manage an awesome fighter attitude - only to be taken down by an unrelated infection?? What a gut punch. I'm just so so sorry to hear that. The roller coaster of emotions is simply unimaginable. What a tremendous loss. And for folks to shut it down (for their momentary comfort) by insinuating that it was somehow benevolent is infuriating. I hope you are holding up ok and that the waves of grief and anguish ebb for you from time to time. Not that I know anything about anything but if you ever want to reach out, please feel free to.