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Mirollz t1_ixudlk5 wrote

nope. being told 'it's gonna be okay. you're doing fine' is the worst thing ever. they best thing that can help you is hearing the TRUTH and being able to become better person from all the critique you hear from others who know you.

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Speeddymon t1_ixufcvy wrote

Not always. Sometimes hearing the truth can put people over the edge. If they know they're fucking up and you don't tell them gently then they could go and off themselves.

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Mirollz t1_ixugh2l wrote

so? it's better to lie then? if you're weak then feeding you lies will only worsen your condition as the lie can't last forever. no. it's better to face the truth and it's consequences than to live with a lie. no one matter how good that lie is. and if you're to weak to withstand that then, welp, nobody's gonna miss you anyway

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Speeddymon t1_ixugma6 wrote

No I didn't say lie, in fact I specifically said "if you don't tell them gently" meaning don't just tell them the truth but do so in a way that isn't going to make them hurt more...

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joetuffman t1_ixw9fih wrote

weak people need to be encouraged by the strong person's contentment with his own morals and self as a means for them to join in. almost always they are a strong person yet to realize their strength. that's where the strong step in to educate and support.

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Mirollz t1_ixynq7n wrote

"almost always they are a strong person yet to realize their strength" the most idiotic thing I've read today. congratulations.

you seem to be a person raised on Disney movies and other naive cartoons full of compassion. oh boy you're in for a ride called life. lol

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joetuffman t1_iy0lumy wrote

why are you demotivating in the comment section of a thread found in r/getmotivated?

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Mirollz t1_ixudssx wrote

you wanting someone else to feel like you means how miserable you crave for attention. it's pathetic. get a hold of yourself. be a man

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