Submitted by _Cautious_Memory t3_zwef0v in GetMotivated
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pacrasycle t1_j1vmog9 wrote
You’re not stuck, you’re stuck
HORSELOCKSPACEPIRATE t1_j1w6mmh wrote
Well, some people are more stuck than others. Sometimes all it takes to get out is to buckle down and commit to something different (and useful). Sometimes you're already burning the candle at both ends just to stay afloat and you've got a kid or something.
SquidboyUltimate t1_j1urh3d wrote
But how?? 😭
Smittumi t1_j1uz246 wrote
Yeah, that's not advice is it.
Basically, if you want to change a habit - whenever you do the thing track back what happened before, what triggered you to do this.
Then either put those things that trigger you out of reach, or if that's not possible work out a different, more positive habit to replace it.
Is also hard to beat habits if you're Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired (HALT), so consciously address those needs when they come up.
There's other stuff too, like keeping a diary/journal of successes and reasons to change, small changes made over time are more likely to stick, having a buddy to call on in weak moments, visualising doing your good habit (do this in the morning).
Hope that helps.
Dumguy1214 t1_j1urpkt wrote
I can be as gay as I want and play my disco, I dont really care what people think
LengthinessSad7185 t1_j1v7k4m wrote
I ESCAPE LIKE THAT ALSO BUT I HIT THE 50s60s70s and earphones ;)
PreacherCoach t1_j1wbs16 wrote
Behavior based change can do wonders for a person. It is hard fucking work and the recovery time needed can be brutal, but it works.
Kindly stop shitting on something that works for a lot of people.
crackhousebob t1_j1wpft8 wrote
I'm having financial difficulties so I changed my formula. Instead of paying for groceries, I steal them now and have saved a lot of money!
More-Respect9984 t1_j1w9wl2 wrote
I never do anything the same 2cece
More-Respect9984 t1_j1wa8ye wrote
It's armps r more sneak than snake
rexkiller239 t1_j1yij50 wrote
So fkng true
Cheifloaded t1_j1vgrj6 wrote
These so called inspirational quotes are so fucking dumb sometimes, this has to be some sort of AI created image.
1BigNephilim t1_j1uzxmb wrote
I hate to say this, but I've found not being so nice has gotten me further along with some people. Aka, I'm not taking your shit anymore. Its worked out well.