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kingmasonmount t1_j5dy9uk wrote

You are a good friend. Most people are too self involved or focussed to notice and then support someone having a hard time. Especially if it’s a transition period where they are trying to make a big change as selfishly people generally only look at how it affects them and not the person. Good for you. I’m sure your friend will come through the other side stronger with you by their side.

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notsomelody t1_j5e1lyi wrote

Spring always brings me back to life seasonal affective disorder is a real bitch

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MSK84 t1_j5e3wvf wrote

Glad they finally figured it out. Transitioning ain't easy!

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tarkinlarson t1_j5e81hv wrote

Why put it off till march? Why not start today?

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replytoanon t1_j5f2hpe wrote

Replying to greetingshytedvkug (#1,433,097)

Yeah, my thoughts exactly. I’m assuming this was precluded with “making a lot of life changes.” Or something else that doesn’t leave the reader wondering if this is just a platitude or perhaps they’re subtly leading the reader on to a more nefarious plan.

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Clearskies37 t1_j5f3x29 wrote

We become a different person with small habit changes, not by setting a date when it will happen all at once.

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stephiesawyer77 t1_j5f9ptj wrote

Good for him. Always better yourself for you. Ups and downs will always happen. Picking yourself up and making yourself better is a great accomplishment.

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justasmalltowndad t1_j5giru4 wrote

Replying to Clearskies37 (#1,437,436)

Exactly... The key to real change is making the decision to be the person you want to be NOW, and then work backwards, think and act like that person, and if you stumble, consider it exactly what it is, just a stumble, then get right back onto that road. Over months or years, you'll gradually find that you make less and less stumbles and boom you're where you wanted to be.

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