Submitted by Less-Communication97 t3_10s4mwr in GetMotivated
Hi, currently I am not in the best state mentally or physically. I am very lonely and have never had a girlfriend before and I realize that my fault but it’s still very hard on me. I decided if I wanted a girlfriend the best place to start was to workout and start taking better care of myself but sometimes it feels hopeless. I feel like I am going to do all of this just to end up alone anyways and it makes it hard to even want to try. How do I convince myself that all of this is worth it and everything will workout in the end even when I don’t know where life will take me?
SmallOsteosclerosis t1_j6zg6af wrote
None of us know precisely what this life has in store for us! That is part of the beauty and of course the cause for some angst. The key is to keep on bettering yourself, if even just incrementally. This process of betterment is a solo job but eventually someone will either walk into your life or youll get to a place where you’re content either way. I say this as someone who has been in your shoes. Good luck!