Your child is gender non-conforming, that's all, but fully 100 % either male or female. If this is your biological child, and if you're a woman, you were there when she or he was born. But they are either male or female,.. if you forget about gender and just let them flourish, they can be the entirely beautiful, healthy, happy young woman or young man I assume you want them to be without having to try to carve out an identity as non-binary when the only binary is sexual dimorphism, or male and female. I guarantee you, your child is one or the other.