LPT for those who don’t like photos b/c of family members who post unflattering candid photos you don’t want on social media:

I made a rule for holidays/gatherings and communicated it with the offending parties who don’t filter their photos before posting. My rule is this:

I’ll take photos, but I ask that I’m TOLD ABOUT IT PRIOR and don’t get surprised by a camera in my face and ugly candid photos of myself on my social media.

That’s been a good compromise for everyone.