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ellem45678 t1_j1a23lk wrote

If you have to spy on your SO something is wrong and you should speak to them first. If the issue can’t be resolved you shouldn’t be with that person

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Chocolatethrowaway19 t1_j1a93c3 wrote

Yup, thats what the LPT is.

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ellem45678 t1_j1aa5vz wrote

Just adding in my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️

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sailorj0ey t1_j1aar0r wrote

But your opinion is the LPT, like you're just saying it again.

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DoobieBrotherhood t1_j1awi9m wrote

Not really.

Maybe I’m old, but OP’s LPT was to break up on the spot. It’s a terrible LPT for younger people who are more insecure.

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talking_phallus t1_j1ab42v wrote

I mean it don't hurt to have proof before breaking it off. I feel like long term it would be healthier to have that closure. Plus if you're married then do everything you can to catch them in the act before you divorce. "Just leave" is cute but it's very much not applicable to all situations.

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ellem45678 t1_j1abiao wrote

True. Every relationship is different. No one truly knows besides the two people involved what to do and what not to do but once you add in emotions it’s pretty hard

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