Recent comments in /f/Pennsylvania

BartlettMagic t1_jeg3q4z wrote

  1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol — that our lives had become unmanageable.

  2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

  4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

  5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

  6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

  7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

  8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

  9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

  10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

  11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

from the official AA Website.

if i were seeking help, this would drive me away from a support group pretty quickly. to me, this reads as embracing fear and powerlessness, sacrificing oneself for the god that is the disease. how many other people have felt the same way?

*to be fair, there are some good parts to it. but the god angle is too much.

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Tough-Mood-6062 t1_jefxoqa wrote

There is so much to this. Americans are buying more expensive cars, and ones that cost a lot more to repair. Even small things can cost a couple thousand. There is also the fact that more are buying SUVs which are not as safe and do not have to meet the same standards as cars. They have larger blind spots and large flat fronts which tend to cause more damage and that are far more deadly to pedestrians (its kind of shocking how many kids are now killed in their driveways). And of course their is the US healthcare industry. Small injuries and visits to the ER can cost many thousands of dollars.

And then the Insurance companies need to pay for all those commercials, stadium naming rights, executive bonuses, etc.

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