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BigPZ t1_jdh5004 wrote

If you raise your kids you can spoil your grand kids

If you spoil your kids you'll have to raise your grand kids

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AnxiouslyTired247 t1_jdhsu3w wrote

Nah, this just tries to give shitty people an excuse for why when they were raising kids they couldn't get it together, but if they are just around a (grand) kid they are so great they can spoil them.

Many people become good parents in spite of their own upbringing, not because of it.

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BigPZ t1_jdht7u1 wrote

I don't see it that way at all.

I see it as when raising your own kids you have to be their parent and do the hard things to raise them properly. That way when they have kids, they will be the ones to raise the grand kids properly and you don't have to be in charge of the raising, just be a part of their lives

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