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AnxiouslyTired247 t1_jdhsu3w wrote

Reply to comment by BigPZ in Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish

Nah, this just tries to give shitty people an excuse for why when they were raising kids they couldn't get it together, but if they are just around a (grand) kid they are so great they can spoil them.

Many people become good parents in spite of their own upbringing, not because of it.

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BigPZ t1_jdht7u1 wrote

I don't see it that way at all.

I see it as when raising your own kids you have to be their parent and do the hard things to raise them properly. That way when they have kids, they will be the ones to raise the grand kids properly and you don't have to be in charge of the raising, just be a part of their lives

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