cashmerebuttcheek t1_iu27jsn wrote
Just got dumped a few months ago from an 8-year relationship. I had no idea anything was even wrong until he kicked me out. He switched from a complete sweetheart to a cruel narcissist in a matter of hours (from my perspective, anyway). Even though it was bliss the whole relationship, if I had known it would turn out like this, I would have run far, far away from the very start. That motherfucker broke me.
Wolfram_And_Hart t1_iu3xkfu wrote
What he switched from was the mask to his true self.
Silent_Ensemble t1_iu87682 wrote
I’ve seen that happen a lot but after 8 years? Usually after about 6 months you’ll know who a person really is, but 8 years and then a sudden 180 seems odd
UDPviper t1_iudnc3e wrote
My marriage took a huge 180 about 5 years in. She started verbally abusing me all the time. Always putting me down, always looking for the tiniest excuse to blow up at me. It was so sudden that I couldn't figure out what the hell was going on. I tried to think of what i did that was so bad but there wasn't anything. I think she wanted me to do it back so she would have an excuse to end it but I wouldn't return the hate. The problem was we were living in her parents house so I was the one who had to leave when she asked for a divorce. My father in law was my biggest supporter but he got lung cancer and died within six months. With him out of the way, the rest of her family turned on me and I was out of the house and homeless. It took years to recover from that.
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