I work in a school near Cockeysville and it is the ideal suburbs to raise a family as well as the surrounding neighborhoods (Timonium, Towson, Sparks, Phoenix etc.). However, many adults in the area are parents and most interactions happen through their children’s school, hobbies, sports, birthdays, community events etc. So just like many other replies to your thread, I would suggest initially living in the city. The Mt. Washington and Hampden communities seem to meet your immediate needs. They are both relatively safe, walkable, and accessible neighborhoods with friendly people. If you choose to live within one of these communities, the warmer seasons ahead will give y’all lots of opportunities to meet people through events, pop ups, etc. and for you to host your own events, and to just enjoy the outdoors. Also it’s awesome your partner works at UMMC. Your partner will come across a big community of people that include plenty of transplants that can offer advice and support. Best of luck to you and I hope you find what you’re looking for!