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zeratul98 t1_j2nb735 wrote

Reply to comment by Working-Raspberry185 in Homeless with a 3 year old by ItalianMama95

Who knows if OP's family can even afford to keep putting them up, especially since, again, she cannot work.

Overstaying her visa is also a great way to ensure she gets banned from entering the UK again.

When OP does get back, she'll likely find her car has been impounded for quite a lot of money, and possibly repossessed. And then at some point her ex will probably get rid of her stuff. Your suggestion is likely to be very expensive for OP.

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Working-Raspberry185 t1_j2nedfs wrote

Glad you have so much insight. As I said they are suggestions. I’d rather get banned from uk than make my child live on the streets. Certainly should be calling local places

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zeratul98 t1_j2nuwza wrote

There's no need for the attitude.

It's a shitty situation with no good options. You presented your option as obvious and straightforward. It's not.

OP has limited resources in the UK as she is not a citizen. She's on a clock too before she gets deported. She'd be burdening her family. And her problems would be worse than now when she's forced to return.

You can "if it were me" all day long, but this isn't a thought experiment for OP. She does not have the luxury of being allowed to be ignorant of consequences.

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