In these age gap relationship posts in reddit, the girl almost always have some issues at the start of relstionship, emotionally, financially so that the older guy can swoop in and sort of rescue her. After a few years, trouble in paradise, the girl opens her eyes that the older guy could be abusive or she has changed to a different person.

This is what you get for getting with them young, you may not be maturing or growing at the same level.