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swild89 t1_jad115v wrote

Only you know what you’re comfortable with and shouldn’t push yourself. If this is something both of you want to do, clear boundaries and discussion before after during etc

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PolackMike t1_jad1cpk wrote

The conversation after is extremely important. Make sure you talk about how you felt about it, if any boundaries were crossed, if you want to continue, etc. Communication and trust are key.

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PolackMike t1_jad17bm wrote

That's up to you. I'm in an open marriage and that is something that my wife and I are both into but that sort of thing requires both people to be onboard and desiring it. If you don't want to do it, don't. It's really as simple as that.

If you decide it is something you'd like to do, make sure you have some long conversations about boundaries. Hopefully he's not using it as a way to get to sleep with other women as well.

Tread carefully and only do what you want to do.

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Icy-Perception-8108 t1_jad5jnj wrote

Are you sure he isn’t trying to prostitute you and secretly wants to get paid by those man? A lot of human trafficking cases start this way you see.

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hisimpendingbaldness t1_jad1p2j wrote

Kind of up to you. If you are kinky enough and comfortable sure. Tbh most people wouldn't.

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