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Puzzleheaded-Face-69 OP t1_ja83ky8 wrote

Reply to comment by MX-Nacho in Should I 22f ask my bf 23m to change or dump him? by Puzzleheaded-Face-69

I dumped my ex fiancé because of my religious indoctrination. It tore me apart that my church leaders wouldn’t allow me to be with who I loved. I started my deprogramming on my own but was still morally against marijuana, my current bf changed my mind on marijuana… I agree that that’s an improvement I just think your comment just seems reductionist

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MX-Nacho t1_ja863h6 wrote

It was meant to be reductionist. And made you cough up circumstances that you hadn't (like who dumped whom).

Well, if I was BF2, I would feel used by you if you dumped me just to go for your ex, and if I was your ex and found out about everything, I would still feel weird. One way or another, you should break up with BF2, as it is unfair on him if you just keep comparing him to another guy. Then check if BF1 is available.

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