He starts to flirt with the front desk woman at my daughter’s daycare the second day of the school. I have tried to suppress this by either transporting my daughter all by my own or companying him all the time if he insists going to the daycare.

Today, to my surprise, he didn’t insist going to the daycare. Then I found out that front desk woman was off today. Not sure if this is just coincidence or they have actually communicated secretly.

The front desk woman is someone I can’t avoid everyday when I send my daughter to her classroom. Every time my spouse goes with me passing that woman and they two find every single minute to flirt to each other, I feel so disgusting. How shall I act, particularly when being in front of them?

Thank you for your advice!!

P.S. my spouse has no fidelity and he has had a sugar baby for months. I am trying to end this marriage but the process is kind of slow.

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XesLanaLear t1_jaewx1t wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:01 PM

I mean, with that PS on top 100% he's probably sleeping with her already the way you describe it.

If you're already filing to end the marriage, discretely film her flirting inappropriately with your husband and report her to the daycare administration.

They'll probably still find ways to see each other. But your daycare won't be involved. And it may push him to help you expedite your split.

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