Submitted by ThrowRA----821 t3_1170ig6 in relationship_advice
2 months ago I found out my wife of 20 years cheated on me at an event with a co-worker. I chose to stay and am working to repair the relationship. The wife of the other person involved also knows and I feel the urge to contact her. I'm not sure what I have to gain, if anything, but if there is one person in the world that I feel for its her. I just want to talk as she understands the situation better than anyone ever could. Perhaps we can support each other?
I know this is going behind my wife's back as it would be without her knowledge.
Can any one offer any advice to help me with the decision? Has anyone done what I'm thinking of doing?