Submitted by nyaaoneko t3_1275f69 in relationship_advice
I (f22) been with my boyfriend (M20) for a year now. When we met I was dealing with the truma of SA which he knew about.
Now my boyfriend isn't a sensitive person and I knew this, but I didn't think it would be to this extreme. We got onto a heated argument about Sa and he was going on about how woman don't get penalties for falsely accusing men and I was going on about how men don't get penalties for assaulting woman and it got heated. Anyways it triggered me big time and I ended up having a complete mental breakdown over it.
And he just left me to cry by myself for hours. I went back into the room after asking him to just hug me when I'm upset.
Anyways. I've been laying here for a few hours while he won't come off his game and I ended up crying again more now BC I'm upset he's choosing to play a game over just giving me a silly little hug.
I don't know what to do.
I love with him and can't afford to live by myself but everytime I get sad over anything he is the exact same.
For example when my childhood parrot died he was like it's just a bird
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