Submitted by jwbrewer12 t3_125hiix in relationship_advice
My (19M) girlfriend (19F) has been extremely sad and upset about her body and other aspects of herself. I do my best to be there for her and tell her she’s beautiful and gorgeous and that I love everything about her body and her personality and all of her and I really do mean it. I love this girl with all of my heart. So it pains me so much when she can’t love herself the same way. She tells me she doesn’t think that she looks pretty, but that she knows that I think she’s pretty. And when I ask what I can do to help, she tells me there’s nothing I can do and that she doesn’t want to talk about it. So I don’t bring it up, but I know she still thinks about it constantly, about how she isn’t pretty enough and how she wants to just delete all of the pictures of herself. I just don’t know what to do, I feel helpless when I really just want to help her feel in love with herself. Any help would be appreciated because I really just want her to be happy and to love herself the same way I do. Thank you!
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