[deleted] t1_jeg6sz4 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 7:51 PM

You need a baseline first. Is she usually open and does she rarely bring up guys from work? Have you caught her speaking bad of a guy that she was actually interested/attracted to? Things like “I thought he was awkward/gay/not that cute” but her actions speak otherwise? I think she’s trying to deflect and her being open to sharing her phone then getting weird screams red flags to me. Relationship requires openness and honesty and if she accuses you of having other women when you’ve never broken her trust could mean she’s projecting.

throwRA4236777 OP t1_jeg7l2x wrote on March 31, 2023 at 7:56 PM

She doesn't talk about guys from work. I've asked before who she was in a meeting with once bc she was laughing alot. So I assumed that's maybe why she said that. But she said it's bc I don't ask stuff like that.. idk.. she's honest about looks but typically doesn't contradict what is true about men. She will call pretty women ugly tho. I've never broken her trust besides watching porn when she knew I did but just kinda decided I'm not going to anymore halfway through our 4 year relationship.