It’s more interesting that it bothers you. Are you having doubts?

He can feel whatever but you don’t seem comforted by his confidence. Why?

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When i met my husband 3 years ago. We new very fast we were the one for each other. We said it to each other from the start. We got engaged after a year together and got married this year. It can happen we are very happy

Yes I knew my wife was the one after a few months. We were about your ages when we met and at that time we both kind of knew what we were looking for in a partner and our communication was awesome.

After a year I proposed and a year later we got married. We have been married for 7 years now and it has been amazing.

Trust your gut and try not to overthink things.

I knew pretty much immediately. Everything else has been checking.

The older someone is (assuming they have experience commensurate to their age) the less time it can take them to make such huge, lifelong decisions. But then there are people who say this to everyone they date. Some of them will be blowing smoke because they think that's what their partner wants to hear. Some of them will just be emotional basket cases who fall hard for everyone. Only time will tell.