Alternative-Wish-186 t1_iuj2p08 wrote
Reply to comment by 1Killag123 in My bf went out to a concert with his “girl best friend” and after the concert they’ll sleep in the same apartment til the morning by [deleted]
I agree … I have tried talking to him about it but I was always accused of being “overreacting” or “controlling”. I really want to try to convince him that he should set clear boundaries with her, but I don’t really know how to
Own-Writing-3687 t1_iuj7eda wrote
Overreaching or controlling is name calling. It's a major communication fail. It changes the topic from his behavior to yours plus its intended to hurt you.
It's a strategy used because the facts don't support his behavior . He cant explain or justify his behavior so he attacks you by calling you names.
Dump this jerk. He's failed the BF test.
Own-Writing-3687 t1_iuj6umr wrote
Everyone in a committed relationship has an obligation to make the partner feel safe from infidelity.
His behavior is a major fail.
The time and emotions spent on her should be yours. Right now you are sharing him.
His behavior is selfish, entitled, likely deceitful (as to his intentions or sex), and shows zero empathy to you.
Most men would not do this to a woman they loved. You can't change him. Don't argue or explain any further with this selfish jerk.
You deserve better. Ghost him and block this jerk on everything.
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