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Blissful_EDM t1_iujr3ed wrote

Reply to comment by EnderDitto in Girlfriend (23f) Gave "Ultimatum" Regarding Scattered/ADHD behavior to me (29m) by [deleted]

Thanks for the help. That is actually something I can bring up in the near future to her and see if she would be on board. Feel like we're both level headed enough to have a neutral third party smack some reality into the one at "fault" for that type of discussion.

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EnderDitto t1_iujsoor wrote

Two quick warnings to leave you with. Seeking "fault" is not good but seeking understanding is great. Resisting or avoiding counseling is a bad sign that I hope doesn't happen in your case. You seem to be on a good path. Good luck to both of you.

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Blissful_EDM t1_iujwqlo wrote

Perfect warnings. Especially the "fault" one. Could have found a better word, but there is a reason I put scare quotes. She was actually the one who instilled it in me there is no winning in discussions/arguments between couples. Even though we never really argued at all. Thank you for the help!

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