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berryjuiced t1_iuhca2t wrote

Reply to comment by Lucavious in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]

Don't listen to that.

"My bf broke up" - he's cheating. "My bf didn't break up" - he's cheating but wants a cake too. "My bf farted" - he's cheating and his arse has spoken about it.

Seriously....

There is not much you can do besides respecting his decision. It's hard to pinpoint what made you guys grow apart, but that state is often irreversible unless both people have strong desire to change that. Looks like he doesn't for whatever reason.

Go through your emotions, breathe in and out, you'll be OK.

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Lucavious t1_iui0256 wrote

It’s fine if you lack the experience to see the signs dude but actively encouraging burying their head is some malevolent shit. Nice job.

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Temporary-Departure4 t1_iujjrvi wrote

Wow… you are… a sad sad person. I’m sorry someone hurt you that bad. But not everyone is always, how do you say, eating the shit sandwich?

Also calling it before you say anything back “well you’re young and don’t know. Sorry you don’t have experience in the real world’”

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