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kodapp t1_iuhu0qk wrote

“Can’t have intellectual conversations with me that have depth and meaning” ah he’s one of those. Who’s at fault for not having good conversation? The person who is putting in as much effort as possible or the person with the mindset of not being able to have a conversation before it even starts… sounds like someone from r/iamverysmart Sorry I don’t really have any advice but you sound like a really nice person and he sounds like a bit of a cunt.

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Corfiz74 t1_iuj3vy4 wrote

My guess is that he met someone - coworker, fellow student - with whom he connected intellectually, and now he's drawing unflattering comparisons to OP. He'll change his tune when he realizes that happy relationships are not built on intellectual connections alone...

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AnotherPalePianist t1_iujb2b4 wrote

Unfortunately most of them aren’t built solely on love either. I’m not saying it’s not a possibility that he’s a jerk, found someone else, whatever….but I think it’s also totally possible he just learned (unfortunately the hard way, through living together in a matchbox) that the two of them don’t click the way he needs. He may regret it later. I hope OP is beyond this by that too me if he does

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thebaker53 t1_iujqjb9 wrote

That was my first thought too. He's been having deep conversations with someone else.

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