Um hate to say this but he did break up with you. He said he doesn't want to be in a relationship. That's literally him saying it's over.

Take this time to heal get back on your feet glow up save and travel or find a new job in another city or something. New place new you.

5yrs is a long time but unfortunately some times good things come to an end. It was also enough time to flourish just sucks that it didn't.

It may be more painful when you find out he's moved on too. Just FYI.