zZombi__ t1_iugtowc wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:41 AM

I feel like the main issue is either jealousy or insecurity.. Considering it came before it wouldn't necessarily be an issue with Katrina specifically.

Honestly, if it's either of those, it's not his problem and you would need to work on/through that. Both of those can become toxic in bigger amounts and it's not healthy for either of you to have to deal with it.

Maybe a relationship therapist could help overcome the jealousy/insecurity that it might be. And maybe tell John how you feel, but don't tell him not to talk to her.

Electrical-Letter132 OP t1_iugu7hz wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:48 AM

I see that, and yeah that's probably why, but I talked to Katrina about it once and she like kinda just ignored it. And I know that it's bad and toxic but I'm just scared to even acknowledge it.

I'll try that, thank you. What mostly bothers me is that he relies more on her than me and he was just more comfortable w her than me and that just broke my heart. Idk it makes me feel like he was just forced to be w me, yk?