Submitted by throwRAsisfdmybf t3_xwgf1t in relationship_advice
It's what the title fucking says. The girl who's basically been a sister to me all my life and who I'm living and going to college with is fucking my boyfriend in my goddamn bed. We've been dating for six months so I know it shouldn't hurt as much but this was also one of my first real relationships so like Idk. I guess what makes everything worse is that they don't feel bad about it. Like, he asked me to join them???
He was just going on about creating this place where we could live happily and I wouldn't have to be hung up about 'propriety' and shit. ftr I haven't had sex with him yet because I'm nervous (yeah I'm a virgin loser, ik ik) but he's convinced it's because of society or whatever, which I didn't really get but he backed off after a bit of pushing regardless so I didn't pay too much attention at the time. Anyways he wants to make this place where we could live happily with a bunch of other girls he's been fucking texting behind my back. My sister was just nodding her head along like he wasn't spouting utter bullshit and was talking about how much closer we could become. I left after that and now I'm at my college's library on reddit. I'm still in shock I think. I have no idea what to fucking do.
I can't go to either of our parents. (We had a bad fight bc they didn't want me to stay with her but everybody in our family has always picked on her and treated her badly even when she's done nothing wrong) I don't really have any friends outside of my sister and boyfriend that I can stay with. I have most of my important stuff with me aside from documents and other little trinkets and plushies but just the thought of going back to my room is making me nauseous. Idk if I should just bite the bullet and ignore everything or wait it out or something. I don't want to lose my sister or my boyfriend but I'm so fucking angry with them both. I just really really don't want to start crying in a library. What do I do?