Relationships with coworkers

Submitted by pdx-help-wanted t3_z8v1cg in relationship_advice

I find myself highly attracted to coworkers because I am gifted with seeing their ambitious nature. I also do not enjoy the typical social engaments, i.e. bars, sports, gyms, book clubs, religious followings, etc., and have a hard time understanding the reasons others enjoy them.

I am interested in finding strategies to reduce my constant thoughts of fucking some of my coworkers. This causes me problems sometimes because I'm not sure how to communicate at times.

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DeepTh0tt t1_iydefqb wrote

Don't shit where you sleep.

In other words, do NOT act on impulses to date or fuck co-workers. You will 100% regret it. There's a better chance of things not working out than working out. And then you'll need to deal with it every single day until you get a new job.

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Ambitious_Mammoth105 t1_iydfvx4 wrote

Replying to DeepTh0tt (#811,046)

Thank you. It doesn't work out now the whole work area is uncomfortable because you screwed somebody. Have people not wanting to work with you or them. Work is for working. If you want to be with somebody from your job get a new job or a new poison at a different area to not mess up the work environment.

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