Submitted by Abject-Rent1395 t3_z924px in relationship_advice
I've been seeing my girl for three years now. Until I was using her phone to make a phone call, and then I saw a Suspicious name message her. She never told me about him, he said it's his gay coworker, asexual coworkeri kinda freak out a little bit and scroll on convo probably like 4 seconds cause she took her phone back. She said she never get a chance to introduce him to her because I'm out of town, but she already talking to him by the time I'm still in town. I saw that the gaydude sent him his pubic hair and told her he will f*ck her in the arse. Its kinda weird cause she didnt felt weird about it, its like its fine for her to tell him that.. so I really want her to cut off her connections with him. But she keep saying she will distance herself, which is not enough for me cause distance doesn't stop connections. I asked her desperately if she will block him or I'm leaving. Desperateley. Cause first of all i didnt know she were talking to this guy long time before i found out. And she really cant cut there connections. She even said he's just a co worker, he's nothing, but still can't block him.
AutoModerator t1_iyejgwi wrote
Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:
We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors
Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)
No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.
All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.
What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.
If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.
#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.