throwthisaway5638 t1_iyb5cw3 wrote
What’s your end goal? I assume you don’t plan to be long distance forever?
No_Nothing_7003 t1_iyb5rnc wrote
My job offers relocation after 2 years worked. I'm a year in. She brought up if I can do that on the trip she broke up with me on. She is not moving from NYC. Zero chance.
throwthisaway5638 t1_iyb6wyv wrote
Your job offers relo, but you’d also have to get a job back in NYC, right?
No_Nothing_7003 t1_iyb8peg wrote
They'd pay for me moving. It'd be simple. But my fear is it won't matter by then.
throwthisaway5638 t1_iyb9szb wrote
It’s a pithy statement, but it’s true — if you love someone let them go. If they return, it was meant to be, if they don’t, then it wasn’t.
Given how volatile your relationship has been, a break apart may be the “reset” you need.
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