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throwingaway2846 OP t1_iye1bx4 wrote

Reply to comment by Malalang in Am I too close to my husband's best friend? by throwingaway2846

You know I was just gonna let your comment slide but I do have one thing to point out.

You are ignorant. Cheating has different definitions in different relationships. Example: my friend has an agreement with her partner that she may have sex with others, as long as she tells her partner before/after it happens. My other friend isn't even allowed to hang out with the opposite sex, or it is cheating. Different relationships have different boundaries and it's bold of you to assume anyone's boundaries.

When I flirted with his friend, I told my husband the morning after and he said it happens sometimes and just asked me to not do that again. And I have not. Did I cross a line? Yes. But did I cheat on him? No.

You are being overly critical of someone who is on an advice sub. Nothing about your comment was advice, it was all criticism.

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Malalang t1_iyepgog wrote

You're right. I apologize. I have little patience for people who break the rules that have worked for millions of relationships over thousands of years and then complain when it's not working out the way they want. But I should have kept my criticism to myself.

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