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Regardless of whether or not he's cheating or not, you have no trust in this relationship so its almost guaranteed that the next person you meet will be an improvement

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It means he figures a good defense is a strong offense, and when you question him he goes into attack mode. Not the greatest way to communicate in a relationship. Do you want to be yelled at for the next 30 years? If so stick with him.

I don’t want to he was never like this when we first got together but people start to show their true colors after a few months…

>but people start to show their true colors after a few months…

Sad to say this is fairly common.

Based on the text of this post, nobody is going to know if he’s cheating or not. You don’t know enough so we don’t know enough.

What seems to be clear based off of the text of your post though, is that you don’t seem to mesh well. It seems like his behavior isn’t ideal for your needs. Maybe try communicating with him to try to establish a healthier dynamic. If that doesn’t work. Reconsider if this is what you want.

Cheating is far from the only viable reason for a breakup

I posted another thing with signs of me thinking he’s cheating. There’s so many signs but he denies it. I try to communicate with him but it’s turns into a fight.

K you tried communicating and it didn’t work. Time to reconsider if this is what you want. Don’t think “if only (insert bad behavior) changed, I’d be happy…” In the dating game, you work with what you have in the moment. Could you be happy in a commitment with him assuming he stays exactly the same for the rest of your life? Depending on how you answer that question, you will know whether to stay or go

Well he said he would change but, it hasn’t happened and we been on and off for about a year now. But I don’t I always think about that question.