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Lexotron t1_iyer4s1 wrote

This is just a whole ball of fucked up. I'm going to reply assuming you're not a troll posting the plot of a Jerry Springer episode or something.

Get yourself out of there.

A 35 year old should not be interested in dating a 25 year old.

You should not be so dependent on someone who has mistreated you like that.

Find someone else to stay with and then block all contact with her.

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Double_Afternoon3705 OP t1_iyes3fz wrote

I tried the whole getting away from her I spent 3 months working on myself getting my life back together one more paycheck and I'll have my license back I am pretty much dependent on myself now but no matter what I was doing she was always on my mind she was the only thing that I could really think about when I got off of work hence the reason I wanted to give us another shot I don't know how to put how I feel for her into words

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Lexotron t1_iyes7vr wrote

What you feel is an unhealthy codependency.

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Double_Afternoon3705 OP t1_iyes8lh wrote

Oh and don't get me wrong I'm not the perfect individual either there's a lot of messed things that I did as well

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