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AgoraiosBum t1_iy9g4kh wrote

Damn Jody....

You were lite on the details, so either this was a one off when you were separated (by boot) and she was 18, and since then you two have built a life together. Or she's cheated a lot.

If it is the first one, take some time. Keep staying at your friend's for a bit. You need to process. And figure out if this is a "ok, she was young and foolish but it has been 10 uears and she's a different person now" or is this "I will never be able to move past this"

Keep the idea of forgiveness as an option.

You can also try a reconciliation and if it doesn't work, still get a divorce

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myWholeWifeIsaLie OP t1_iy9zq6z wrote

Yeah I mean it's lite on details for a reason. Still just processing. But you're right I need to just keep processing and keep forgiveness as an option. She insists pretty strongly its the first option

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L1CHDRAGON_FORTISSAX t1_iyaay7m wrote

> keep forgiveness as an option.

Sorry but forgiveness is never an option for cheaters.

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AgoraiosBum t1_iya277p wrote

I feel for you brother. Turns out one of the foundational blocks you had relied upon has crumbled.

Good luck to you whatever happens.

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