Submitted by maddawg992 t3_zzvrbs in relationship_advice
So I know my sister in law and my parents don’t get along she basically told them to fuck off and they don’t exist to her anymore back in May when they went on a vacation together. There was an argument in front of my parents and my nephews and my sister in law told my brother to divorce her if he’s so unhappy, so my mom said do not do this in front of your kids you one son it crying so keep them out of your argument. I’m sure there was more but I only heard my parents side of the argument
Either way I’ve been in contact with my SIL since then and even danced with her at a wedding and talked to her about gifts for her boys even as recent as beginning of December!
On Christmas I stayed at my brothers house and my SIL didn’t come downstairs from their bedroom once to say hi and I was there form 3pm to 9 am.
The only thing I know happened is her son came out to me Christmas Eve and said SIL told him it’s a phase. I told him it isn’t and I’ll take him to pride this summer before he goes to high school. But I do not know if he told her about that because he’s a quiet 14 year old
This morning I woke up to being blocked on Instagram and Facebook. Social media isn’t important to me but my brother never posts n my SIL posts pictures of my nephews all the time and I’ll I do it interact with love on those posts or tag her in my memories of her boys when they were little to share their cuteness!
So my question is do I reach out to my brother to ask what’s going on and why I was blocked but if he doesn’t know it will start drama or do I try to reach out to her? And how do I reach out?
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