Submitted by iColtBrawl t3_zz3uvk in relationship_advice
She has just been sending me stuff the past few days and we just started our relationship not too long a go.
I held off on sex with her until she came to me for it because her exes only used her for that.
I wanted to show her I enjoy her for just her and not her body. She is an amazing girl.
Obviously I love the nudes, but at the same time I worry maybe she is just sending them because thats all she was to her exes. Just a person for sexual pleasure. I worry she thinks she isnt good enough for me so she makes it up with these pictures.
Once she broke down crying because she thought I was upset that she didn't want to have sex one day, I wasnt even mad at all. She just was so worried thats bc shes been treated like shit.
How do I go about this? Or do I just leave it be. I dont even send her pics back, she never even asks.
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