itsokiloveu OP t1_j2939zr wrote on December 30, 2022 at 3:18 PM

Reply to comment by k-Unsolicited in [24F][22M] A man who I deeply trust and might love could have given me an STD by itsokiloveu

I didn’t ask him to, I told him I was doing it and sadly decided to trust he would, especially considering I spent a total of $2K to visit him and he claims to care deeply for me. The moral of the story is don’t trust anyone ever

k-Unsolicited t1_j293n1x wrote on December 30, 2022 at 3:20 PM

I don't think it's a matter or trust, I think that it's a lack of communication and expressing your expectations. Had he said that he got a full panel done and he didn't, that would be a trust issue. He never said that he got a full panel so it is a communication on your end and lack of taking control of what people insert into your body. Don't be naive and assume that people will do something that you did not ask them to do

The moral of the story for you would be to communication your expectations.