Ex-girl (f27) has boyfriend she seems in love with but misses me (m27)

Submitted by Parking-Shoulder7794 t3_10proz7 in relationship_advice

I (m27) dated this girl (f27) for a while. We got close really quick. Do to some incompatibility issues in the bedroom (that I thought we would be able to navigate through) she ended up distancing herself romantically. She found some other guy after several months, I was getting jealous so I told her i needed distance from her.

Over the months weve been apart shes told me she misses me. She has reached out through text as wel. And her best friend has told me she misses me as well.

Weve met up for coffee, but we didn’t talk about anything serious regarding our relationship. We did hug several times and I could tell that she was happy that i didn’t resent her.

She is hard to read but does this just mean she really misses me as a friend. Or does she regret what road she took

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Gosc101 t1_j6m1ei9 wrote

It might mean she wants to ear her cake and have it too. With current arrangement she doesn't need with your sexual compatibility issues while having you there in her life.

I think you shouldn't let this situation last too long. At some point you need push her to make decision whether she wants to get back or stay apart. If she would wish to stay apart you should distance yourself so that you can get over her and eventually find a serious partner for you.

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