goth-insomniac OP t1_j6k7zl6 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 10:30 PM

Reply to comment by gordonf23 in i (20f) move too fast for my partner (19f) by goth-insomniac

i guess. i’ve tried to discuss what is and isn’t okay physicality-wise but she’s got really bad anxiety issues (we’re both in therapy dw) so she just kind of beats around the bush. i’m writing out a speech/letter to gather my thoughts and next time i see her we’re gonna have a Conversation

gordonf23 t1_j6k88tx wrote on January 30, 2023 at 10:32 PM

There are people who get married after dating for 6 months— not that I recommend it. And most people these days have sex after several dates. If not earlier. It definitely sounds like your girlfriend is moving a bit on the slow side. I would find that really frustrating.