ananya_uwu t1_j8hknrd wrote on February 14, 2023 at 10:46 AM

>How could you be alone multiple times with past partners and think it was okay”

hon, this is obsessive behaviour and not okay on her part. You can't be in their company anymore? You haven't done anything with them, you've been loyal to her. This isn't something you tell a partner out of the blue. She needs to understand that.

Athenas_Binary t1_j8i0ktz wrote on February 14, 2023 at 1:38 PM

This has to pointed out. Also hiding and nit telling until asked is completely different.

ananya_uwu t1_j8l46g0 wrote on February 15, 2023 at 2:31 AM

See I'm not saying hiding it is right. I'm saying it's not something you randomly tell someone when you know it could possibly fuck up the relationship which is also exactly what it did when he told her. Before someone says he should've told her at the start, it's not something you start off a relationship with is it? Would you tell someone that when you're starting a relationship? Especially when it's something that you're not proud of.