Well i agree . The fancy diner stuff you can do together but when a wedding day comes you make sure your guest are ALL liking it, that nobody leaves hungry and that there are drinks going around all the time. My only big rule was on my wedding ...nobody gets to be hungry or thirsty. I made sure the whole day there was small things to eat, enough cake, ebough drinks and when diner came everyone had pre chosen their meal. (Meat/fish/chicken or vegetarian). It's got nothing to do with conservative it has everything to do to Celebrate with your loved ones and making sure they love the day. Believe me you won't like if people talk about your wedding bad afterwards and they will do that when the food not good. People still talk bad about my uncle's marriage because we went to the Chinees afterwards as everyone was hungry 🤣🤣