Pro tip: in general, in the 21st century, especially in 2023, married or not, regardless of sexual orientation, no matter the degree of relationship, well meaning or prurient, no matter if your fiancee/mom/pastor/politician/society/culture thinks it's normal, it is NOT okay to ask any woman about their child planning. It is not a cute, relatable, smug marrieds question; you are essentially asking her about her ovulatory phase and insemination planning and in doing so, reducing her entire self to a womb. It is an intrusive and sexist line of questioning. A woman's reproductive cycle is no one's effing business other than her own. The public can stay the **** out of her uterus. Delete this question from your idle chitchat repetoire. End PSA.