TheCrimsonDeth t1_jdcwwqy wrote on March 23, 2023 at 2:31 PM

Reply to comment by Whatsmyageagain24 in TIFU By snooping through my wife's phone by [deleted]

No one said “man up”, just for him to leave. You’re reaching.

Edit: I was wrong. Leaving this up here to take my downvotes like a champ.

Whatsmyageagain24 t1_jdcxtnm wrote on March 23, 2023 at 2:37 PM

To paraphrase some if the most highly up voted comments:

"dude grow the fuck up"

"I would leave him too looking at his comments history"

"seeing how he just complains about being lonely and is full of self pity, I would leave him too"

Vile, yet standard responses for men dealing with mental health or relationship issues.

AzLibDem t1_jdd4sl8 wrote on March 23, 2023 at 3:23 PM

I told him to grow up and act like a parent, after he said:

>I dont care she can have everything

I think he's the victim here, but he needs to step up for his kids.

TheCrimsonDeth t1_jddjglm wrote on March 23, 2023 at 4:56 PM

Oh. I was wrong then. Leaving my post up to take the downvotes like a champ.

I mean, I get what you’re saying. “Man up” might not be the best way to go about things, but it got his attention and he definitely needs to grow the fuck up.