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AnonzyAccount t1_ir3mckr wrote

Something similar happened to me earlier today. If the argument was worth fighting for, It wasn't a bad thing for you to jump in. I don't even think there's a logical reason as to why your mom would need to make things physical anyways, but that's just me.

Whatever happened, happened. If they still want to hold a grudge over it, don't beat yourself up over it. Its been months since that happened, and its stupid to think that playing the quiet game will help. (Self experience on that part. It just ends in years of wasted time over something so stupid...)

Either way, If this still bothers you, I'm sorry. It's not your fault for what happened, and you did your best to help. If your parents choose to burn a bridge, its best to stop trying to put out the flames.

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These-Blackberry5874 OP t1_ir4zf7o wrote

thanks for the advice and the kind words sometimes moving on and getting some clear thoughts are so hard in life

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pooplingpo t1_irbowt9 wrote

If your parents are ghosting you over just this, they've probably been horrible to you for a long time. It can be hard to move on, but once you accept that as your course of action, it will be easier to make advances with it

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