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abyssalcrisis t1_iy2ld24 wrote

Jesus. Abuse does things to a person. I am so sorry you had to endure her abuse for as long as you did. But please, remember this: it is not your fault. I promise things will be okay. They may not be right now and it may continue to hurt for a while but it will get better.

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monadyne t1_iy2ot0r wrote

>it is not your fault

Part of it IS his fault! He did not stand up for himself. He did not demand that his girlfriend behave honorably to him. He acquiesced in taking the friend along to J's home, even though the friend had already betrayed his trust.

Hopefully, he will learn the lesson from this experience, that a man must be strong and must protect his feelings against toxic friends and lovers. When he realized his girlfriend was unworthy, painful as it would have been, he should have rid himself from her forever! Same with his so-called friend. None of us should allow ourselves to be so weak that we would tolerate such disrespect.

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